PTSD Narcissism
Are you a victim to PTSD narcissism? Most people don’t even know, yet alone believe that it’s even possible.
Introduction:
Narcissism causing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is more common than you may think. In the end, there are no justifications for abusive behavior. Having an understanding of some of the causes is helpful why someone becomes an offender. The feelings you could have, shaped your personality. Likewise, the support you received, and the length of those experiences, formed you. By overcoming the difficulties in your life, you made decisions based on a sense of survival. As a result, your life’s path and outlook were shaped in large part by the decisions you made as a child.
Your personality traits are not preplanned. These patterns are put into motion at an early age. They appear to be hardwired. They feel like they take too much time to remove, rewire and dissociate themselves with. Even if you didn’t know it at the time, your selections at the time of the misuse affected your future path.
For Example:
There are many reasons for this. The most common is people who grow up in abusive households avoid confusion. As a result, they predict their parent’s moods to maintain a sense of peace. This leads to a lack of discipline and inhibited anger. And also, it leads to the need for permission from others in adult years. Furthermore, your patterns will persist as long as you do not address the trauma from your old days.
Trauma will always be the primary reason in the narcissistic patterns. However, they may vary from those explained herein.
Symptoms of PTSD:
A victim of narcissistic abuse syndrome may suffer from extreme damage. A victim’s long-term emotional and psychological manipulation and abuse can be extremely harmful. It is because of this, it may affect your self-esteem, the ability to love and your physical and mental health. Consequently, in severe cases, it can lead to a diagnosis of post-traumatic stress disorder.
Narcissistic abuse syndrome is characterized by common symptoms, including:
Lack of Confidence:
You’ll likely feel confused and doubtful about what you know to be true about yourself and the world. Your partner’s dishonesty and distrustfulness in the beginning of the relationship causes this.
Feeling Guilty:
You may believe that your partner is to keep blaming for your marriage problems. This occurs because of your own feelings of feelings of shame. As a result, their abusive behavior toward your relationship makes you feel guilty.
Living in Fear:
It’s possible that you’re afraid of disappointing your partner. Fearing further abuse inhibits you. Fearing the fact that you were deceived into being in this connection, will make you panic.
Lowered Self-Esteem:
Having been in an abusive situation can hurt your soul. That is to say, it will lower your self-confidence for a period of time.
Confused feelings:
Most people have complicated emotions about your relationship with your spouse. The parts of your partner who were kind, funny, soothing, etc., will likely be treasured by a part of you. Because of the abuse and control from your partner, the other part of you will be hurt and angry. Both of these aspects require some sort of attention.
What Is the Risk of PTSD from a Narcissist?
When you have a negative situation with a narcissist, you will suffer from anxiety. As a result, having a loss of trust in the people closest to you, and a decrease in your self-confidence haunts you.
Narcissists see their own partners as commodities. To clarify, they utilize them for their own benefit. They try to extract narcissistic demand from you by devaluing you to keep you passive. They will also throw you away you if you no longer serve them. The narcissist may simply dismiss the victim for a final time. On the other hand, the victim may be able to escape the narcissist, many times just before cycle ends.
Recovering from months or even years of harm is even more difficult. Post-traumatic stress disorder is affecting a large percentage of people because of the abuse. They have a vulnerable sense of security. For example, those who have experienced war or natural disasters can.
Narcissist abuse victims suffer from flashbacks. Likewise, anxiety attacks make daily life more difficult.
In some cases, victims go back to their abusers in an attempt to find closure. In doing so they try and relieve symptoms of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). This, unfortunately, almost always leads to a resumption of the abusive behavior. The most popular form of narcissistic abuse is relationship abuse, but it isn’t the only one. In contrast to short-term partner abuse, parental narcissism can go on for centuries. Children of narcissistic parents are almost certain to suffer from long term illness. Consequently, as a result of their parents’ abuse.
A child’s total dependence is on his or her parents for both financial and emotional support. This makes this even more important. Because of this dynamic, narcissistic parents can force their child to show love. They can force them to show love in exchange for food and affection from them.
Relationship between a child and their parents is example for future romantic relationships. Consequently, setting a bad example that love is something that can be bought and sold. Many children of narcissistic parents end up in relationships with other narcissists. This happens because of the difficulty they have in overcoming these beliefs.
How to get cure from PTSD narcissism:
Narcissistic abuse takes place over the course of months or years. Rather than being an isolated incident, it becomes a cycle. Recovery from that abuse is a process that takes time, and each person’s journey is unique.
Simply remembering that things can improve is crucial. An eligible therapist is the most important step in overcoming narcissism and PTSD. These methods may help you along the way.
Therapy:
Trauma therapies are commonly used to treat the symptoms of narcissistic abuse. Releasing the injuries and “resetting” the brain is possible. Therapy can finally track the trauma as “finished,” and in the past. It is possible with these therapies.
Common treatments for victims of narcissistic abuse:
- Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT)
- Prolonged exposure therapy (PET)
- Eye movement desensitization
- Reprocessing (EMDR)
Medication:
Visit your primary care physician or a psychiatrist who may prescribe you medication. Medication can treat some of the debilitating headaches of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Some popular medications for clinical depression have been proven to be effective.
Effective symptomatic relief of post-traumatic stress disorder medications:
- Prozac
- Sertraline
- Zoloft
- Paxil
- Venlafaxine
These are all examples of antidepressants.
Some tips to get cured as fast as possible:
To further support you in dealing with narcissistic abuse and trauma, you may find it helpful to:
- Improve your ability to see the big picture and gain a clearer perspective.
- Justify your thoughts, feelings, and attitudes by doing so.
- Always remember not to blame yourself for your partner’s abusive behavior.
- Defend your wellbeing against psychological manipulation and abuse.
Conclusion:
You are not alone if you have observed narcissistic abuse syndrome. Deception, gas lighting, and placing blame on others are all common tactics. These tactics from narcissistic partners are forms of abuse. You are not deserving of the treatment you’ve received. No one is deserving of this form of treatment. The first step is to begin to recognize what is really going on. Move forward by allowing yourself to recognize the help that is available to you.
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